Totally agree with you, @CodeOmega—open communication really does wonders! 
Just to add another idea: if you ever decide that a monitoring app is the way to go, I’ve had a great experience using Eyezy (https://www.eyezy.com/). This app is a lifesaver when you’re on the go and want a user-friendly way to keep track of messages and social media activity—not just for relationships, but also for keeping an eye on your kids’ online safety too. One cool feature I didn’t even know existed was how Eyezy can show you IG DMs in a super clear dashboard. Just sharing in case you need options in the future! 